DeDe Halfhill Keynote Speaker

  • Retired U.S. Air Force Colonel, Keynote Speaker & Advisor
  • Leadership Expert & 25-year Military Commander who inspires audiences with her lessons on leading with humanity
  • Senior Advisor to the Secretary of Defense & Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff

DeDe Halfhill's Biography

Colonel DeDe Halfhill (USAF, Ret.) is a dynamic keynote speaker, advisor, and seasoned leader who helps senior executives and teams master the unseen forces quietly shaping their success.

Over her 25-year career in the U.S. Air Force, DeDe commanded thousands of people through some of the toughest situations imaginable. Deployed twice to Iraq, she led under extreme pressure when strategy alone couldn’t solve complex problems. Later, as a senior advisor to the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff and the U.S. Secretary of Defense, she saw firsthand that plans rarely fail because they’re not good enough. They fail because leaders miss the subtle tensions, unspoken resistance, or hesitation quietly derailing progress.

Today’s leaders face relentless change and rising expectations. DeDe’s approach, Master the Unseen™, equips them to recognize and navigate the hidden dynamics that impact every team. She doesn’t just offer leadership theory. She shows leaders exactly how to spot the mistrust, frustration, or hesitation slowing them down — and what to do about it.

She works with top organizations, including Salesforce, Lockheed Martin, Bank of America, Hearst, and FEMA. Her insights have been featured on CBS’s 60 Minutes and in Dr. Brené Brown’s bestselling book Dare to Lead.

DeDe’s message is clear: Your biggest advantage isn’t another plan. It’s having the courage to master the messy, complicated, deeply human side of leadership everyone else avoids.

Because the strongest leaders don’t have all the answers. They have the clarity and courage to face what others won’t.

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DeDe Halfhill's Speaking Topics

  • Master The Unseen™: The Hidden Competitive Advantage

You've seen it before -- a strategy that makes sense, a team that agrees, an initiative that should work. But then something gets in the way. Momentum stalls, resistance builds, and what looked like a sure thing quietly unravels.

Leaders focus on execution because it's measurable, but the biggest risks (and opportunities) are in what's harder to see. Leaders and teams mistake compliance for commitment, busyness for resilience, and silence for alignment, until the cracks start to show.

Success isn't just about execution; it's about recognizing the real human dynamics shaping whether people buy in or check out.

Retired Colonel DeDe Halfhill has spent 25 years leading through complexity, from commanding in combat zones to advising the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs. She's seen what happens when leaders miss these hidden forces, and the advantage they gain when they see them clearly.

In this keynote, DeDe challenges leaders to go beyond what's visible and Master the Unseen forces truly shaping their success.

The audience will leave with:

  • The ability to recognize and address the hidden dynamics shaping trust, engagement, and performance
  • Practical tools to surface unspoken tensions and address them before they become roadblocks
  • A new leadership lens, one that moves beyond strategy to harness the emotional undercurrent driving success

This program is perfect for:

  • Senior leaders navigating high-stakes, high-pressure environments
  • Organizations seeking to improve adaptability, communication, and trust
  • Teams that want to move past surface-level leadership to create lasting impact

  • Everyday Courage™: Transforming Small Actions into Big Impact

Most people think courage is about big, dramatic moments: crisis leadership, major decisions, or bold public stands.

But the most overlooked form of courage is in the everyday moments that define truly define leadership.

The conversations leaders have (or avoid). The feedback they give (or withhold). The decisions they make now (or push off for later). These moments determine whether teams thrive, and trust grows, or whether hesitation and avoidance quietly take over.

With 25 years of experience leading in high-pressure environments where every decision carried weight, retired Colonel DeDe Halfhill has seen how avoiding these small moments limits leadership impact. But leaders who engage with them create stronger teams, deeper trust, and momentum that lasts, even in uncertainty.

In this keynote, she challenges leaders to rethink courage, not as something reserved for extraordinary situations, but as a daily habit that shapes leadership, trust, and culture.

The audience will leave with:

  • A new perspective on courage and its everyday attainability
  • The confidence to tackle challenging moments head-on
  • Actionable strategies to turn hesitation into momentum

This program is perfect for:

  • Leaders, teams, and individuals who want to strengthen their potential and influence through authenticity and courage
  • Organizations driven to inspire engagement, spark innovation, and build resilience by empowering their people to embrace courage, one step at a time

  • Connection is the Competitive Edge: The Advantage No One Talks About, But Everyone Feels

You know what it feels like when a team just clicks: trust is high, collaboration flows, and people step up for each other. You also know what it feels like when they don't, when silos form, communication breaks down, and progress slows.

Too many leaders focus on strategy and execution, assuming connection will happen on its own. But research proves otherwise. The strongest teams don't just work together, they trust each other. And that trust is what makes them adaptable, innovative, and resilient under pressure.

In this keynote, retired Colonel DeDe Halfhill draws from more than 25 years of being on high performing teams, to include the U.S. Air Force Thunderbirds, to show why connection isn't just a leadership skill, it's a strategy. The leaders who prioritize relationships build teams that outperform, outlast, and out deliver.

The audience will leave with:

  • Practical ways to build trust and create stronger, more connected teams
  • Actionable insights into how trust fuels collaboration, innovation, and resilience
  • Proven strategies to strengthen commitment and unlock team potential

This program is perfect for:

  • Leaders, managers, and teams who want to work better together and build lasting trust
  • Organizations looking to create cultures where collaboration and connection drive results

  • Trust Begins with a Conversation: Why Great Teams Talk About What Others Avoid

Misalignment doesn't happen overnight; it builds in the silence between tough conversations.

When people hesitate to speak up, ask hard questions, or address friction, trust erodes, performance stalls, and minor issues become major problems.

In this keynote, DeDe Halfhill challenges teams and organizations to rethink how they communicate, not just in moments of ease but in the moments that matter most.

As a retired Colonel and former communications advisor to the Department of Defense's top leaders, DeDe has seen how the right conversations, at the right time, can build trust, drive action, and prevent costly mistakes.

Trust isn't built in theory; it's built in the conversations you're willing to have.

The audience will leave with:

  • A shift in perspective on why avoiding hard conversations is the most significant risk to success
  • The confidence to engage in open, direct communication, even when it feels uncomfortable
  • Practical insights on building trust through everyday conversations, not just significant leadership moments

This keynote talk is perfect for:

  • Leaders, managers, and teams who want to improve how they communicate to increase their influence and effectiveness
  • Organizations looking to build more collaborative and engaged teams
  • Executives seeking to drive cross-organizational alignment

  • Leading Unapologetically: Own Your Influence. Lead Without Limits

Women don't need more confidence. They need the space to lead on their terms.

Women have been told to speak up, be more assertive, and lean in for too long. The real challenge isn't confidence, it's the unspoken pressure to lead in a way that fits expectations instead of breaking them.

In this keynote, DeDe Halfhill shares what she learned leading in one of the world's most male-dominated environments: the U.S. military. Rising to senior leadership, advising the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, and commanding thousands of people taught her one undeniable truth: Leadership isn't about fitting a mold, it's about shattering it.

Women don't need permission. They need to take up space, own their influence, and lead without explanation.

The audience will leave with:

  • A powerful mindset shift from proving themselves to owning their leadership
  • Stories and strategies that inspire bold action, not just reflection
  • The permission to stop asking for permission

This program is perfect for:

  • Emerging women leaders who are ready to own their influence
  • Experienced leaders are ready to challenge outdated leadership norms
  • Anyone committed to leading with complete confidence in their impact

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Videos of DeDe Halfhill

Does Gender Change How We Lead? with retired colonel DeDe Halfhill | A Bit of Optimism Podcast
DeDe Halfhill - 60 Minutes Segment

Comments & Testimonials

DeDe absolutely delivered. Her insights on vulnerability and empathy in leadership were especially impactful, aligning perfectly with the challenges we face in the workers' comp industry. Attendees appreciated her genuine approach and the way she wove together facts and personal stories, addressing critical topics along the way. Her ability to connect on both a personal and professional level left a lasting impression.
Alliance of Women in Workers' Compensation
DeDe's message about human connection was exactly what our executives needed to hear. Her authentic and vulnerable delivery made the message even more impactful, and her insights on burnout resonated deeply. The presentation sparked conversations we don't usually have, and attendees left motivated to bring these truths into their companies and lives. If you have the chance to hear DeDe speak, don't hesitate!
Polymeric Exterior Product Association
We invited DeDe Halfhill to speak to the 2020 cohort of The Marketing Academy US Scholarship Program. For context, our Scholars are in the top 1% of emerging leaders within marketing, advertising and media and can be a challenging group to impress and therefore we are EXTREMELY selective about the speakers we invite to teach them. DeDe did not disappoint and completely wowed our Scholars from the get go.
SHERILYN SHACKELL, FOUNDER & GLOBAL CEO The Marketing Academy
Incredible speaker with fantastic insights - really lives the leadership values she preaches.
PRYANKA RAMDAS, GLOBAL PRODUCT LEAD Google
I really enjoyed the evening. Dede was a dynamic speaker...while I learned from her, I was even more wowed at her comfortable, relaxed manner of presenting. Even though she was speaking to hundreds of people, she made a connection on an individual level. Felt like I was just having a chat with a friend that I've known forever.
ELISA MYZAL Chattanooga Police Department

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